Dream Big, Plan Smart: My 2020 Goals for Personal Growth, Home Harmony, Financial Freedom & Business Success

Welcome to an inspiring journey of intentional living! This article delves into my personal dreams and concrete goals for 2020 across three vital areas: personal well-being, home and financial stability, and business growth. I’ll also provide a transparent recap of my progress on 2019 goals, sharing both triumphs and challenges. My hope is that by sharing my process and experiences, you’ll feel motivated and equipped to set your own meaningful goals and actively work towards the life you truly desire. Let’s make 2020 a year of profound progress and fulfillment!

You might notice I’m a little later than usual in sharing my goals for the new year, and that’s simply because, well, life happens. The end of the year and the start of a new one always bring a flurry of activity. However, these past few weeks have been dedicated to thoughtful reflection on the year gone by and deliberate planning for the year ahead. This intentional pause allowed me to truly connect with what matters most.

And isn’t that how it should be? There’s absolutely no rigid timeline or external pressure dictating when you must finalize your goals. In fact, I’ve observed many fellow bloggers and productivity experts advocating for more flexible approaches, such as setting monthly or quarterly goals instead of a single annual list. The beauty of goal setting lies in its adaptability to your personal rhythm and circumstances. The critical element isn’t the deadline, but rather the act of documenting your aspirations – perhaps in a dedicated section of a tool like The Flexible Planner – and consistently working towards them throughout the year.

Dreams or Goals? Unraveling the Terminology

The distinction between “dreams” and “goals” is a topic frequently debated in productivity circles. Some experts suggest separating them, envisioning a “Dream” section for broad aspirations like “travel more,” while “goals” would then be the highly specific, actionable steps needed to achieve those dreams, such as “buy tickets to Australia for March.”

After much contemplation, my conclusion is that the terminology itself holds less importance than the clarity and intention behind your aspirations. Whether you label them “dreams,” “goals,” or a blend of both, what truly matters is that your chosen framework serves as a supportive tool, propelling your progress towards the life you envision, rather than creating unnecessary obstacles. The method that resonates most with you is the right one.

So, what does this personalized approach look like in my own life?

For several years now, Brian and I have collaboratively defined four key areas that represent our “5-Year Big Goals.” These are essentially the overarching priorities that guide us for the foreseeable future. While these haven’t significantly shifted in recent years, you could certainly categorize them as our long-term dreams. The act of meticulously writing these down has proven indispensable; they serve as a compass, consistently informing and shaping the more specific yearly goals I choose to pursue.

I diligently record these in the dedicated goals section of The Flexible Planner (a system I obviously find incredibly effective!). I visualize this process as a funnel, where each level seamlessly connects to and informs the next:

5-Year Big Goals → Yearly Goals → Goal Action Steps

This structured approach allows us to break down ambitious aspirations into manageable, actionable components. Once these action steps are identified, they can be strategically placed on the Year-At-A-Glance page for a holistic overview, or individually integrated into the goals sections of specific months when you plan to actively work on them.

The crucial takeaway here is to engage with your goals far more frequently than just during the initial excitement of January. Make it a deliberate practice to revisit them regularly – whether that’s monthly, quarterly, or even a thorough mid-year check-in. Any consistent review is infinitely better than none at all. These check-ins serve as powerful reminders of your guiding principles and provide opportunities to adjust course if priorities or circumstances have evolved. This dynamic engagement ensures your goals remain relevant and motivating.

While this particular goal-setting method isn’t mandatory for everyone, I’ve personally found that establishing these larger, 5-year goals or “dreams” has profoundly impacted our direction over the past few years. Having a clear, overarching vision of our desired future has made it significantly easier to confidently say “no” to opportunities that don’t align with our bigger picture and, conversely, to enthusiastically embrace those that propel us closer to our long-term aspirations. It’s a powerful filter for decision-making.

I don’t believe I’ve previously shared our expansive 5-year goals or “dreams” in detail, but I think it’s incredibly beneficial to demonstrate how these foundational aspirations inform and shape the specific goals I select for the current year. They provide essential context and a sense of purpose. So, without further ado, here are Brian and my core dreams/goals that will guide us over the next five years:

1. Fix Up Farmhouse: This encompasses significant renovations, maintenance, and enhancements to our home, transforming it into our ideal living space.
2. Travel: A commitment to exploring new places, experiencing different cultures, and creating lasting memories through various trips.
3. Fund Retirement & More Passive Income: A crucial financial goal, especially as self-employed individuals, focusing on building a secure future and diversifying income streams. (It’s important to note: we’re not on the brink of retirement, but actively working to bolster our savings and investments after years of self-employment.)
4. Give & Invest In Relationships: This goal highlights our dedication to contributing to our community, supporting causes we believe in, and nurturing meaningful connections with family and friends.

These four pillars represent a thoughtful combination of deeply important personal values and practical necessities that require focused attention. They are the areas that will collectively command the majority of our time, energy, and resources over the coming years.

With these overarching dreams in mind, I’ve incorporated how each specific 2019 recap and 2020 goal relates back to one of these foundational 5-year aspirations, indicated by the green text. This transparency is designed to illustrate my goal-setting methodology – it’s a process that has profoundly enhanced my ability to set meaningful goals. Instead of simply plucking appealing ideas out of thin air, I now consciously align my yearly efforts with a larger vision of what we want our life to look like. I sincerely hope this approach encourages you to think a bit bigger and connect your daily actions to your grandest aspirations!

Recap of 2019 Goals: Reflecting on Progress and Lessons Learned

Reviewing previous goals is an invaluable part of the planning process, allowing for honest self-assessment and insights for future endeavors. Here’s how I fared with my 2019 objectives, with green text highlighting their connection to our broader 5-Year Big Goals.

Personal Goals:

1. Maintain weight with Intermittent Fasting (16:8 eating window) and healthy eating (I feel this just has to be a goal every year, even if I’m at a good weight). DONE! This was a consistent success. Maintaining a healthy lifestyle with intermittent fasting and mindful eating habits truly became second nature. If I’m not healthy, I can’t fully enjoy travel or effectively work on the farmhouse and garden.
2. Move everyday. Barre3 at-home videos 3x/week, adding in 4x/week walking and/or gardening/DIY. Also, add Pomodoro timer to computer and set to work in 60-90 minute blocks before getting up to move. HALF. While my Barre3 routine remained consistent at three times a week, my outdoor activities like walking or gardening were heavily dependent on favorable weather. The cold, dreary days often kept me indoors, highlighting a seasonal challenge. The Pomodoro timer for movement was incorporated, but not always consistently for stretching. Ditto – sustained health is the foundation that enables us to pursue so much!
3. Read/Listen to 80 books. SMASHED! I actually surpassed this goal, reading over 100 books in 2019 for the very first time! Reading is now such an ingrained part of my life that I don’t feel the need for a numerical target anymore. Reading broadly helps me develop empathy and knowledge, making me a better friend, daughter, wife, and mom as I continually expand my world and perspectives. It also enriches my conversations and allows me to share insights with others.
4. Build relationships by connecting with friends in person 2x/month and home group 1x/week. DONE! I feel genuinely good about achieving this goal; nurturing these connections brought immense joy and support. This is definitely a habit I plan to carry forward into 2020. Actively investing in our family and friend relationships is a cornerstone of our life and aligns with our big goal #4.

Home/Financial Goals:

1. Farmhouse Remodel: Finish master extension, flooring on main level, porch roof, living/dining room, kitchen, vegetable garden fenced and useable, and sunken flower garden started. HALF. This area proved to be more challenging than anticipated, primarily due to prolonged inspection processes. While it doesn’t look like much was fully completed, the good news is that most inspections are now behind us, allowing us to finally move forward with exciting elements like flooring and wood walls. The vegetable garden, however, was successfully fenced and put to use! This goal is obviously a direct contributor to our 5-year big goal #1: Fix Up Farmhouse.
2. Max out retirement funds. DONE! I’m thrilled to report that we successfully maximized our retirement contributions for the year. This directly addresses our long-term financial stability and big goal #3: Planning for retirement.
3. Find new CPA + better plan for taxes. DONE! We did find a new CPA, although my satisfaction with the arrangement isn’t 100%, and I might be exploring other options soon. Essential for smart financial management, supporting our retirement goals.
4. Move by end of year? Plan for manufactured home? NO. As seen with the remodel, our focus remained firmly on our current farmhouse. (I often wonder why I keep adding this to my list – it feels more like a wistful dream than an actionable goal at this point, haha!) Ultimately, this goal was tabled in favor of working towards big goal #1: enhancing our existing farmhouse.

Business Goals:

1. AOC Products: promo current products and introduce 1-2 more. HALF. We successfully promoted existing products. For new introductions, I’m counting the coil-bound Flexible Planner. Even though it was an iteration of an existing product, the extensive development and launch efforts made it feel like a completely new product that consumed a significant amount of my time and creative energy. This aligns with big goal #3: business growth and increasing passive income streams.
2. Increase newsletter subscribers. DONE! I am delighted to report that our newsletter community grew by thousands of new subscribers. A key component of big goal #3: expanding our reach and building a sustainable business with passive income potential.
3. Pinterest focus to increase traffic from that source. DONE! I made a concerted effort to re-engage with Pinterest, taking back control of my own scheduling strategy. This focused approach yielded excellent results, significantly increasing traffic to the blog from Pinterest. Directly supports big goal #3: enhancing business visibility and passive income.
4. Continue SEO optimization of older recipes and articles. DONE! This was an ongoing, diligent effort throughout the year. While it feels like a task that may never be fully “done,” consistent optimization yielded positive results. Crucial for long-term organic traffic and big goal #3: business and passive income growth.
5. Regular videos and more social media lives. DONE! While “regular” can always be more regular, we definitely produced a greater volume of videos in 2019 compared to previous years, and I successfully incorporated live cooking sessions in January. Supports big goal #3: expanding content formats for business growth and passive income.

New 2020 Goals: Stepping Forward with Intention

With the lessons learned from 2019 firmly in mind, I’m excited to share my new goals for 2020. These are designed to push me forward, align with our 5-year vision, and foster continued growth in all aspects of our lives. Again, the green text indicates how each goal connects to our larger, overarching aspirations.

Personal Goals:

1. Maintain weight and visit my doctor regularly. I have a tendency to postpone routine check-ups, but regular preventative care is truly essential for my overall well-being. My aim is to check in with my doctor a few times throughout the year. Good health is non-negotiable for enabling travel and tackling demanding DIY farmhouse projects.
2. Move 6 days/week. I will continue my Barre3 videos three times a week and actively incorporate walking and gardening during the spring, summer, and fall seasons. For days with inclement weather, I plan to integrate more consistent movement throughout the day, utilizing the Pomodoro timer I installed last year to prompt stretching and short activity breaks. Once again, consistent movement and health are foundational, directly supporting our ability to travel and engage in DIY projects.
3. Complete the Modern Mrs. Darcy Reading Challenge. I am genuinely excited about this new type of reading challenge; it offers a fresh approach to expanding my literary horizons. I know some of you are participating too, so I’ll be sharing my book selections and experiences in my upcoming “Best Books of 2019” list. This goal is about expanding my world, fostering empathy, and deepening my capacity to better relate to others and connect in conversation.
4. Relationships: Start a new Sunday small group and commit to meeting with friends a couple of times each month. Nurturing these meaningful connections is a top priority for me. This directly aligns with our overarching 5-year big goal #4: Give & Invest In Relationships.

Home/Financial Goals:

1. Farmhouse Fixer: This year’s focus for the farmhouse remodel includes completing walls, installing floors, finishing the exterior, renovating the kitchen, building new stairs, and fully finishing the living and dining rooms. This is an ambitious but exciting list! This is a core component of our 5-year big goal #1: Fix Up Farmhouse.
2. Three Trips: We have planned three significant trips for the year: Australia in March, Yellowstone in August, and Arizona in November. These adventures are much anticipated! These trips directly fulfill our 5-year big goal #2: Travel.
3. Sunken garden next to farmhouse: My plan is to design the layout, complete the initial planting, and apply mulch to establish this new garden space. A beautiful addition to our home, aligning with our broader Farmhouse improvement goal.
4. Adjust finances to tighten the budget but maintain retirement contributions. Our self-employment income structure is undergoing changes this year, necessitating a careful review and adjustment of our budget to ensure we remain on track with our financial goals, especially retirement savings. This is vital for both our big goal #3 (Retirement & Biz) and ensuring overall financial stability.

Business Goals: (All of these directly relate to our 5-year big goal #3 – funding retirement, business growth, and increasing passive income.)

1. Create 1-2 new products. My aim is to develop digital or physical products that I genuinely believe you, my dear reader, will find incredibly useful and valuable.
2. Update newsletter strategy. I’m actively researching and considering changes to my email service provider and newsletter format. Additionally, I plan to create more effective funnels to better direct new readers to my wealth of existing content.
3. SEO & Website Audit. I’m currently undertaking a comprehensive website audit to ensure everything is up-to-date and compliant with Google’s evolving search engine optimization (SEO) best practices. SEO is all about improving visibility in search results. After 11 years of blogging, I anticipate that updating and cleaning up the site will consume a significant portion of my time and effort in 2020, but it’s a crucial investment.
4. More video content. My goal is to establish a consistent video production day each month, aiming to produce 1-2 videos that cover both timeless older content and exciting new material.

Word of the Year? A Different Approach This Time

You might have noticed the absence of a “Word of the Year” in my title or mentioned thus far. That’s because, simply put, I don’t have one for 2020. In previous years, a guiding word would often emerge organically, serving as a powerful lens through which to view the upcoming year. It felt intuitive and inspiring.

This year, however, that spark hasn’t presented itself. And I’ve decided not to force it or pretend. If a word doesn’t genuinely resonate with me and ignite a sense of excitement and authentic guidance, then pushing for one feels counterproductive. Sometimes, the most honest path is to acknowledge when a particular practice doesn’t align with your current season or intuition. It’s about being authentic to my process.

Instead: Cultivating Impactful Habits for 2020

While a single “Word of the Year” didn’t manifest, what I *do* have for 2020 are some specific habits I intend to diligently track. I’m not overwhelming myself with a long list – just three core areas where I’ve wanted to see significant improvement for quite some time. My motivation extends beyond simply checking boxes; I genuinely believe these particular habits hold the potential to create a profound and positive impact on various facets of my life.

Here are the three foundational habits I’ll be tracking using the convenient Habit Trackers in my Flexible Planner:

1. Gratitude Everyday. Although I do utilize the gratitude section of my planner, my practice hasn’t been as consistent as I’d like. My goal is to make daily gratitude journaling a non-negotiable, culminating in a comprehensive list of blessings at the end of the year. I’ve already ordered a new dedicated journal specifically for this purpose and will meticulously track my progress, ensuring this powerful habit truly sticks.
2. Stop Work at 5:00 Weekdays + Friday Creative Block. Maintaining a healthy work-life boundary is a continuous challenge. While I steadfastly avoid working on weekends, I often find it difficult to disengage from work by 5 PM on weekdays, or to resist the urge to jump back online after dinner for “just a few more things.” This tendency isn’t beneficial for my mental well-being or my relationships. Additionally, I’ve long desired to dedicate a full day each week to creative pursuits, whether directly related to the blog or not. My aim is to designate Fridays as this creative block. During this time, the goal is absolutely no computer work; instead, I’ll focus exclusively on hands-on activities – whether that’s working on the farmhouse, tending to the garden, or indulging in a crafty project. (Capturing moments through photos or notes for future blog content, however, is perfectly acceptable!)
3. Big Thing First. This habit embraces the “eat the frog” philosophy, an idea I once thought didn’t quite apply to me. However, I’ve decided to give it a serious try this year! I’m naturally not a morning person, and my most productive hours typically fall in the afternoons. Despite this, I often find myself procrastinating on the most challenging tasks, instead defaulting to easier activities like responding to emails or comments. I want to actively challenge this pattern in 2020 and truly assess if tackling my “big thing” first each day makes a tangible difference in my productivity and sense of accomplishment.

Now, I’m eager to hear from you! What goals or dreams are you contemplating, or actively setting, as you strive towards living your own version of a simple, homemade life? Remember, everyone’s path looks different, but inspiration can truly be found all around you. Don’t ever be afraid to dream big and meticulously plan for those aspirations.

Even if you only manage to achieve a portion of your ambitious goals, you are still significantly closer to realizing the life you want than you would have been without trying. Every step forward, every small victory, counts and should be celebrated!

And from the bottom of my heart, thank you so much for joining me on this incredible journey of embracing simple living, discovering joy in the everyday moments, and creating everything from nourishing food to welcoming homes for ourselves and our beloved families. You, my wonderful readers, are genuinely the driving force behind this blog’s continued existence. I deeply appreciate your time spent visiting, your thoughtful comments, and your encouraging emails. I make a point to read each and every one – and I even save the most uplifting ones to revisit during those inevitable times when I might wonder, “why am I doing this again?” Your support means the world. 🙂

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